Enjoying the Holidays Responsibly: Expert Tips for Young People
In Kinshasa, just like around the world, the end-of-year holidays are moments of joy, sharing, and celebration. However, they can also lead to regrettable decisions, especially for teenagers. Dr. Jean-Claude Mulunda, country director of the NGO Ipas and advocate for women’s rights, shared three essential tips to enjoy the holidays while staying responsible.
1. Holidays are not the End All, Be All
Dr. Mulunda emphasizes that holidays like Christmas and New Year’s come around every year. If you can’t celebrate as you’d like this year, there will be other opportunities, likely next year. It’s crucial not to push yourself to celebrate beyond your means, as it can result in regrettable choices that will impact your future.
He warns against behaviors like theft among boys or engaging in sex work among girls, often driven by social or financial pressures. These actions during the holiday season can lead to legal troubles, sexually transmitted diseases, unwanted pregnancies, or even unsafe abortions with severe consequences for your health and future.
2. Protecting Yourself from Violence
Dr. Jean-Claude Mulunda highlights that holidays can sometimes be sources of tension and violence, especially in intimate relationships. If a boy feels inadequate because he can’t afford gifts, it can lead to violent behaviors. For girls, it’s essential to protect themselves by avoiding dangerous situations and, in cases of violence, having the courage to report the perpetrators. Reporting is a brave act that helps protect others and hold the offenders accountable.
3. Dealing with Mistakes
For girls in particular, Dr. Mulunda offers a solution if a mistake is made, such as unprotected sexual intercourse. Acting promptly is crucial. For instance, finding emergency contraception, available in pharmacies in the DRC, to be taken within a maximum of 72 hours to prevent unwanted pregnancy. However, it does not protect against sexually transmitted infections or HIV. For that, using a condom is essential. In the case of an unwanted pregnancy, the doctor recommends consulting trained healthcare providers who offer safe services approved by the Ministry of Health and the WHO.
In conclusion, holidays are meant for celebration, not for jeopardizing your future. Enjoy in moderation, make informed choices, and always protect yourself.